The Key To Obtaining Relationship Wisdom!

Don’t you wish you were much wiser when it came to the opposite sex? How much better would your life be, if you were clued up on the opposite sex, knew what was upsetting them when they have mood swings, and could brighten up their day in a second?

Yep, we all want that. We all want to understand how relationships work, to try and make our lives and that of our partners pleasurable. We dream of a happy, pain-free relationship, where the good times far outweigh the unhappy times and where we will live happily ever after.

But that’s not everything you need to realize. There is another vital skill required for any coupling to work, and that’s tolerance. You should remember that no one person is faultless, we all have our bad points (though hopefully the good points outweigh these), and these will have to be tolerated.

So for a woman attempting to gain relationship wisdom, she has to learn what men look for in a woman. For men, they have to discover what it is that women want.

You have your bad points and your lover has theirs. What’s more, neither of you are as wise as you think. You won’t always be right, all of the time, although you like to think so. Instead, the thing here is to identify your partner’s less than positive traits, understand them for what they are, and learn to live with them. This is what love is about.

Now the problem is, men and women behave very differently. Males and females have their own weird emotions, wants and needs that are unique to their sex. As well, we also possess many of the same wants, but it’s the unshared needs that can make problems.

To do this, you need relationship wisdom. To get relationship wisdom, you need to understand how humans think.

An additional key quality you need to last in your relationship and make it a happy one is diplomacy. Relationships are all about give and take. You cannot always have what you want all of the time, and nor can your partner. Sometimes, you have to let them go wherever they want to go, even if it means you tagging along with them when you don’t want to. You should let them ‘win’ the occasional debate, even if you think they are wrong. Diplomacy is essential for any relationship to bear fruit.

Finally, if you want further relationship wisdom, the best place to get it is in, believe it or not, the media. You can read magazines, newspapers etc., nearly all of them will have an agony aunt as well as a love section where people come to ask for advice. Reading these columns can really improve your relationship wisdom.