Relationships The Secret To Long Lasting Romance

Being in love is one of the most beautiful experiences that a person can have. After all, we were made for love. We are made for someone and that is our usual hope and prayer, to be forever intertwined as lovers. If you are madly in love right now, you would probably ask or say, “O how I wish this love of ours to last for a lifetime.” It is easier said than done. The reality is that we need to work on the relationship so that the relationship can work for us. Here are some tips on how to make your relationship last.

One proven way for a long lasting relationship is prayer. Why is prayer included? It is because, in the totality of it, God has a greater plan for our love life. Once we pray together, we find our intentions purified and constantly evaluated to God’s divine standard. Praying enables us to live out God’s way of loving. And that is to be unconditional, honest, and faithful to your love one.

The second is to have simple talks together. A simple talk can lead to beautiful conversations of dreams and plans for both of you to look forward to.

Third is to think big in your relationship. That is not limiting your mindset to just having months together but rather expanding it though years of spending life with your love one. You will have enough reasons to stay in love because you see yourselves still together in the future.

Fourth, is having a regular evaluation and assessment about your relationship. This could be set on a monthly basis. This habit settles the concerns of both parties. It leads to better performance in your relationship since it is evaluated. It gets you from point A to B. It promotes forgiveness, assurance and trust, which are important elements to a long lasting relationship.

Fifth, is spending quality time together. We must not look at the quantity of our time spent but at the quality of it. It is important to regularly spend vacations together, to break out from work and stress and plainly just focus about your relationship together.

Sixth is to strive be the best that you can be. Getting better and better could mean that you are growing in your relationship. If you strive to be the best person, you will give enough reasons for your lover to keep you.

Seventh tip is to seek mentors. Find couples out there who have been there ahead of you. Seek their advice and guidance. They can help you when the going gets tough for you both.

Eight, is to practice the 5 A’s in the relationship. Affirm, Appreciate, Aspire, Assure, Affection

Ninth, is to do what’s the best for you both. Sometimes this involves waiting for the right time in your relationship. Seeing the best is doing what’s the best for you both, even if it entails sacrifice.

Tenth, is to set boundaries in your relationship. It could mean not going out on other dates or occasions where a problem could arise in your relationship.

Eleventh, is to stay true to your commitment. Being honest and loyal are virtues integral to a relationship.

Twelfth, is to indulge in humor. Create funny moments together. Do crazy things worth remembering. Take it easy sometimes. Enjoy the journey. After all, if that person can’t laugh with you, he or she can’t cry with you too.

These twelve tips is your road map to success in your relationship with your lover. Put your heart into it, and your heart will put into what you will do.