Category: Relationship

Your brain knows it’s time to let go of your relationship, but your heart continues to hang on. The heart remembers the beginning of the relationship when everything was new, exciting and wonderful. Back when both of you gave 110%. Now, for whatever reasons, things have changed and it would be healthier for you and your partner if you just let go of your relationship. How do you get past the indecisive stage and do the deed? First, you must recognize what makes an unhealthy relationship. Once you understand that you’re keeping yourself and your partner in a negative situation, letting go of a relationship will be much easier.

Think back to when your relationship was new. Remember how you couldn’t stand to spend time apart? Has that changed? Think about the quality of time you spend together now. Do you still share those long lingering looks across the room or do you shoot eye daggers at each other instead? Do you both enjoy cuddling on the couch or do you sit in your own chairs on opposite sides of the room? If you constantly choose to spend time alone pursuing your own interests over spending an evening alone with your partner, then your relationship is unhealthy. It might be time to consider letting go of a relationship if you are happier apart.

Have you ever noticed couples who think each other’s habits are cute or endearing? Remember when you used to think that way? Do all the little things get on your nerves now? Do you wish you could change your partner? Have you started comparing them to other people you meet? These are all signs that you are unhappy with your relationship. This unhappiness will continue to grow into a breeding ground for depression and anxiety. If this is the case, letting go of a relationship may be the answer to your problems.

Are you afraid of being alone more than you are worried about letting go of a relationship? This fear of loneliness is a problem for many people. You must realize this way of thinking is harmful to you and unfair to your partner.

When you are considering letting go of a relationship, often all you can think of are the negative aspects such as the hurt and fear of loss. These are not good reasons to continue in a bad relationship. You might remember the love you used to share, but no matter how hard you try, you cannot wish it back. Sometimes hanging on is easier than facing the hurt that letting go of a relationship can bring. It’s important to remember that the pain of breaking up will heal. Your heart will survive.

Letting go of a relationship often makes a person feel like they have failed when actually it’s the first step toward healing. If you can find the courage to let go, then you allow yourself and your partner the chance to find healthier, happier relationships.

How do you develop a closer relationship with God?

This question is one most Believers today are asking. In this email, rush-around, hurry-I’m-late world, you have enough trouble keeping up with your friends. Nevertheless the God of the Universe, the Creator of all mankind, but a relationship, an intimate one at that, is what all people crave.

It’s that empty part of yourself that you are always trying to fill. The part that you try to fill with drugs, alcohol, love, success and being popular. No matter what you fill it with, there is still a hole. A big, gaping hole.

Maybe, like me, your relationship with your earthly Dad left a lot to be desired. Perhaps you’ve had a hard time relating to God as your Father because of it. Maybe you transfer your relationship with your Dad onto God and expect Him to be the same way. I know I’ve been there, done that too.

God is not like your earthly Dad. Perhaps your Dad abandoned you in your time of need. Maybe not physically but emotionally. God will never leave you. He will never forsake you. He will never turn you away when you need Him. He is not your earthly Dad, who didn’t have all the answers. He knows everything. He knows what you need before you need it.

God is more than your Father. He is your friend. Some children experience their Dads just as Dads, like me. Others, though, experience them as friends. They can tell their Dad anything. They know in the good and the bad, their Dad has their back.

The same is true for you, as a Believer. You can not only experience God as Daddy but as friend. You can share your most intimate secrets and feelings with Him, and He will never turn you away. He will never abandon you (Hebrews 13:5). There is nothing that you can say or do that will cause Him to stop loving you. He won’t be shocked or surprised by your actions. In His presence, you are safe. Safe from criticism. Free from fear. Free from ridicule.

How do you develop a closer relationship with God? How do you develop a closer relationship with a human being? No matter if they are your mother, your neighbor, your friend or a potential mate, if you want a closer relationship with them, you must spend time with them.

With my friends, I send them letters and cards to let them know I am thinking about them. We talk through email. Through each letter, I learn more about them as a person.

You cannot email or write letters to God and expect them to be deliver to Heaven in their physical form. Nor can you expect an email or letter back from God.

Instead you have something better. It’s called prayer. Yes, you must pray to the Father in Jesus’ Name (John 15:16) and pray according to God’s Will, the Bible (1 John 5:14). Other than that, prayer is just talking to God.

However if you were to talk with your friend, and they didn’t respond, it would be a very one-way conversation. That’s the way most people are with God. They do all the talking.

I make time every morning to fellowship with God. I speak His Word over my life. I pray and read the Word. Then I take Him with me throughout my day. I talk to Him when I have a problem, when I am frustrated, angry, whatever.

However, I make special time to listen to what He has to say. I learned early on that God speaks to me in restrooms–mine at home, in restaurants or whatever facilities I am in. It is our special place. It is where I listen to what He is speaking to my spirit, but it took practice to hear Him well.

Not only do you need to talk to God, but you need to listen as well. Then you will know what is on God’s heart concerning you. Through your communication, your conversations with him, you will get to know Him better. Then your relationship with Him won’t seem so one-sided.

Another way to become more intimate with God is through your praise, worship and thanksgiving.

Let’s take them one at a time:

Praise (Psalm 100:4). What is praise?

Lets say, your child receives straight A’s or catches the winning pass in the championship state football game, what would you do? You would praise your child, of course, with a “Good job, Sally” or a “Wow, Bobby, that was a great catch.”

When God does something spectacular in your life, though, do you acknowledge Him for what He has done?

Worship (Exodus 23:25). What is the difference between praise and worship? The churches categorize it by slow and fast music.

Praise, though, is acknowledging what God has done in your life. Worship is from the depths of your heart, focusing on Who God is. You acknowledge that He is your Healer (Isaiah 53:4-5, I Peter 2:24, III John 2). You acknowledge that He is your Peace (John 14:27). He is your every need fulfilled (Philippians 4:19).

God is God, and you must keep yourself in constant remembrance of Who He is rather than just what He does.

You don’t want to just be known as the guy who can make a jump shot or the girl who can multiply five numbers in her head in five seconds. You want people to get to know you for you. And so does God.

Thanksgiving (Philippians 4:6, 1 Thessalonians 5:18). This is essential to changing your perspective, your attitudes and thoughts. You can look at a situation, such as getting a flat tire, as a negative experience. Or you can find one good aspect about it for which to be grateful. For instance, the tire could have blown and killed you.

You must discipline yourself to be grateful, to purposely find the good in every situation. Then you will become closer to God. You will have a better attitude, a better perspective.

If you want to have a closer relationship with God, you must spend time with Him. You have to listen to Him. You need to praise Him for what He’s done. You must worship Him for who He is and be grateful in every situation. This is how your relationship with God will grow and become more intimate.

Stay confident THROUGHOUT: A lot of guys dont recognize this but as a relationship progresses, their confidence seems to gradually decline. They get jealous more easily, insecure in more ways, etc. This is because you have a long way to go before becoming a true Alpha, where confidence is infinite and insecurities can no longer exist. In the mean time, dont lose control of yourself. Your insecurities are unfounded no matter how you look at them. And Remember, your insecurities can ONLY hurt you. So revealing them as a relationship progresses doesnt strengthen your relationship because you were being honest, and opening up, it only shows your girlfriend that your actually an insecure bitch basket and that the confident, masculine guy she thought you were was a visage to get laid.

2) Dont see her more than two or three times a week: If you see her too often, youll both get bored, take each other for granted, lose your passion, etc. If you dont see her enough, shell think youre not interested or committed enough. Balance is the key here. STAY BUSY. Have something else to do. If you have to pretend to be busy, then you need to re-evaluate your life because a girl is the least of your problems.

3) Dont say I love you first: This is equivalent to going to a war but telling your opponent your strategy beforehand. There are a myriad of reasons why you shouldnt say this, Ill discuss it in a later post. For starters, it ruins challenge and mystery and shifts the balance of the relationship. Now she feels like she is qualifying you to see if she loves you, which isnt what you want. You can say it when she says it, but NEVER say it first.

4) Always go to new places: To maintain passion in a relationship, avoid falling into mindless routines. Dont go to the same caf every Saturday or spend your anniversary in the same hotel room every year. Change things up. Always think of new ideas for dates.

5) No gifts, flowers, candy etc, until three months have passed: No exceptions. No monthly gifts. Give her flowers if you think shes earned them. Always gift her on your anniversary, and her birthday. Always give flowers / candy / stuffed animal on Valentines day.

6) Dont follow regular phone routines: Dont talk to her every morning or every night. Dont talk to her on the phone for too long either. Try and keep it at 20 minutes max usually.

7) Dont talk too much about yourself; let her find out more about you on her own: Main mystery. This doesnt mean you should wear a cloak or intentionally lead her to misunderstand you. Rather, it means you just shouldnt talk too much about yourself, or brag about your accomplishments.

8) Dont give her advice for her own problems: Never get involved in her girl drama. Shell love explaining every detail of it to you. Try and change the topic to a more positive one when you get the chance. If she needs someone to listen to her, then be there for her, but dont act as her shrink. And remember youre her boyfriend, not a flaccid shoulder to cry on. Listen to her, agree or disagree, but dont attempt to over-analyze her problems.

9) If she cheats, its over: Never make an exception, its a slippery slope.

10) Never show any signs of jealousy: Dont cry if shes flirting with other guys, go talk to other girls. If you think shes going overboard, then you can withdraw some attention or make a small comment about it, something witty, but thats ALL. Nothing more, and DONT lose your temper, get mad, or show any type of emotion. If she still keeps at it, give her the boot, dont waste your time with trash.

11) Stay Positive and happy: A must. Not just for your relationship, but for all aspects of your life. Let your happiness ooze out of you, its one of the most attractive features of an Alpha Male. Happiness is contagious. Positive thoughts will manifest themselves in positive ways in your relationship.

12) Never lose control of your emotions: Dont lose your temper, throw things, or even talk above your regular voice. Nice guys are ruled by their emotions. Jerks dont have emotions. Alpha males have emotions, but are able to control them. Dont be void of any feeling, just recognize when youre acting impractical or letting your emotions get in the way of thinking clearly. Dont ACT on your emotion, use logic and reason to guide your actions. Dont let your head be clouded by feelings.

13) Never fully qualify her, and never reject her: Never let her think you love her unconditionally. This is in fact, impossible, and if you think you do, then youre way too dependent on her and need a moment for some desperate self-reflection. If you love her unconditionally, she WILL take you for granted. Never let her feel rejected because itll damage her self-esteem, make her feel insecure, and create a myriad of other problems. Dont walk out on her and dont break up with her unless you actually want to break up with her. I e; dont do it as a cry for attention.

14) If her interest level takes a dip, back off: VERY important point. When a girls interest level drops, which is almost inevitable throughout the course of a relationship, you cannot give heed to it. Most guys become clingier as their girlfriend tries to create space, causing her to want space even more and feeling suffocated. If she wants space, GIVE her space.

15) Dont get married unless you want to: Seems logical, until you think about it. A lot of people get married for the sake of getting married or simply because they think its the natural course of things in an LTR. Just because youre with a girl for 5 years doesnt mean its a good idea to marry her. Explore her flaws and figure out whether you guys will really work well together.

16) Dont get Oneitis- Dont become dependent on her. Always remember that there IS another girl out there who can make you happier and that you DONT need her.

17) Dont become too needy- Girls smell desperation the way sharks smell blood.

18) Always tease and flirt- keep things playful to build rapport and make her feel comfortable

19) Good Sex- You dont have to last as long as a Godfather marathon, but you should take the necessary steps required to keep her satisfied. (Learning more, trying new positions, new places, etc)

20) Mystery, Challenge, and Excitement can help maintain passion: Not much to say about this, just keep it in mind. Never try and build Mystery or challenge, just let it happen naturally. Mystery just means that your life is interesting, she wants to know more about it and you, but you arent eager to reveal anything. It does NOT mean that you disappear every night at midnight wearing a cape and mask and return at 4 AM and refuse to tell her where you were. A certain amount of disclosure is necessary to build trust, but dont be over-eager to share your accomplishments, or your feelings.

21) NEVER cheat. ALWAYS break up with your girlfriend first if you think the temptation is to great.

22) Dont propose until 6 months have passed. No exceptions, and it doesnt matter how perfect she seems. You must unveil all her flaws, and then proceed with both audacity and reason.

23) Never let any of your decisions be based on Fear. Fear of loss or the fear that were going to be cheated on often drives our concerns and actions. Be conscience of when your actions are being driven by your fears, its a dangerous thing to be ruled by them and one of the defining characteristics of Men who have failed at life.

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Long distance relationships are not immune to the conflicts that occasionally rare up in all forms of human interactions. The first time that a conflict occurs between a couple in a long distance relationship, they are likely to get alarmed wondering whether the conflict could be a signal that their relationship is headed for the rocks. After all, long distance love relationships are delicate, or arent they?

Well, the occurrence of a conflict in a relationship in which the partners are separated by distance doesnt necessarily signal the beginning of the end for that relationship. How well your long distance relationship survives the conflicts that come its way depends to a very great extend on how you handle the conflicts and attempt to resolve them.

There are three keys to successful conflict resolution in long distance relations (as in all relationships indeed), namely communication, communication and communication.

Communication has variously been described as the bridge that bridges the chasm that is human misunderstanding. Now a common thread that runs in all conflicts that affect human interactions is a feeling that one is not being understood, or that ones point of view is being looked down upon. And petty as these feelings sound on paper, they can actually be very painful when it is you who is experiencing them. But whatever the cause of conflict in a long distance relationship, and whatever the emotional feelings underlying it, you (either as the party who has been wronged or as the allegedly at-fault party) will have to communicate properly with other party to the long distance relationship, if your conflict is to have an amicable resolution.

Communication as used in conflict resolution basically means making an effort to see things from the other partys point of view, even if you dont accept with that point of view. Once you can communicate to the other party that you are seeing things from their point of view (or at least making an attempt to), then you would be in a position to put your own point of view across to them with a greater chance of success. And once you can see things from the other partys point of view, and the other party can see things from your point of view, you have a better chance of finding a midpoint or a compromise position between your points of view on whatever issue happens to be the source of your conflict and thereby resolve the conflict amicably.