Month: March 2019

Are you dealing with break up pain, any way that you look at it, is not going to be an easy or a enjoyable task. A lot of people incorrectly believe that they will be able to manage their heartbreak, only to find out that carrying a torch for someone after a love affair is a lot like grieving.

At least if you look at the relationship as having passed on. When it comes to dealing with a broken intimate relationship, it is important that you look past the pain and find a way to survive even when things seem impossible for the time being.

Relationship breakup puts a lot of people through fear and misery in there life. Some of the people going through these feelings have no one in the world to turn to, and this is why people suffer so hard from heartbreaks in the first place.

Dealing with break up pain’s all by yourself can seem impossible at first, but consider how many people deal with love and loss in their lives and survive to talk about it. You too will be able to get over your feeling’s like a crippling break up, but only if you are willing to deal with heart break pain the right way, and the healthy way for that matter at hand.

So why is the pain from a lost love break up so difficult? Perhaps when dealing with a break up, it will seem as if you are the only one, who has suffered the kind of pain you’re going through. It is important that you continue to try to heal rather than allowing yourself to give up on the situation.

Dwelling on the painful split from your lover will not help you, so instead you should work on getting better and moving on, which will allow you to stop dealing with break up pain and start dealing with moving on and finding someone new, perhaps even someone that has a better dynamic with you.

What you can do to deal with your pain..

* Spend time with your friends and let them help you get your mind off your heartbreak.

* Don’t dwell on the bad feelings, but focus on the good parts of your life in order to promote healing.

Perhaps your friends will probably realize that you’re going through something serious, and they will more than likely dedicate themselves to trying to help you through it. If this is the case, don’t blow them off, because going out and spending time with your friends and the people that you care about will be extremely helpful when it comes to, Relationship Break Ups How To Deal With The Pain.

Everyone goes through a period where they are dealing with a break up, because everyone in life goes through a breakup. Rather than allow yourself to suffer while dealing with the breaking up.

What you should do is enjoy yourself and work on healing rather than allowing yourself to become stressed out, overwhelmed or depressed by your heartbreak. Perhaps this is meant to be, Life go’s on..

Any time you interact with another person, whether in business or from an interpersonal standpoint, even the clerk at the department store, there is a relationship there. It may be totally casual because you will likely never see that person again, or it may be a relationship that you wish to continue, such as a first date with someone, or even the maintenance of the relationship that you have with your spouse.

Have you ever given any thought to how that relationship is perceived by others? In both business and general life, you would probably be very surprised to find out how you come across to other people. Many people come across as pessimistic or negative without even realizing it. Others come across as being very brass or controlling without meaning to. It is very difficult to tell where another person is coming from, since many people present themselves in a relationship as something other than they are, whether they mean to or not.

Whether we want to believe it or not, most people have a relationship with other that is based on how they think others EXPECT them to be. You don’t agree? Think about it, examine many of your relationships, and then ask yourself if you are not that way in reality. It is very likely almost totally subconscious but it is nonetheless a fact of life.

However, as you look deeper at this particular aspect, you can begin to see how some people do not have a good relationship. You know the type, where your hair stands on end the minute you see THAT person walk into a room. Most times this is simply dismissed as -there is no chemistry there- but it is more than that. That person does not act as you expect them to, you do not behave as they expect you to, and you both realize this and therefore there is conflict, dislike, and many times even a lack of respect or trust.

Studies have shown that this also applies to marital relationships. Yes, a marriage is a relationship. It is also a partnership, although in the world today, the -partnership- aspect is not nearly as prevalent as it was when the couple was standing at the altar.

One thing that needs to be considered in relationships is the aspect of change. People change over time as a result of life experiences, both good and bad, as well as various other influences in their lives, such as job pressures, job changes, family crisis, and a wide variety of other things. Change is to be expected in any relationship, but in the martial relationship, both parties need to change in approximately the same way and in approximately the same direction. Far too often, this does not happen. The couples find, after a period of years, that they have gone down different paths as they live together, and at some point their paths have diverged too far apart to ever realistically expect that they can come back together. This leads to tension in the relationship because neither can any longer learn to EXPECT how the other will behave or react. Typically this can lead to one partner acquiring a controlling nature, because they want to go back to the day when they knew what to expect of their partner, and by exerting control, sometimes coupled with verbal abuse, they are attempting to go back to that place of relationship comfort.

Want to know the common mistakes that many men make to scare away their girlfriends, BEFORE YOU actually make the mistakes? Its a good idea to know what could potentially ruin your relationship with your girlfriend so you dont do those things to ruin the relationship. And certain mistakes are made by guys over and over again, which a lot of times results in their woman breaking up with them.

In fact, if you ask any single woman she will say that all her ex boyfriends didn’t understand at least 1 of the following 3 things (if not all 3) and that the fact that they just didn’t get it contributed to the break up .

Show Her That You Love Her Without Giving Her Anything

You dont have to go overboard with this by sending her flowers everyday and showering her with constant love, but you do have to show her that you love her and care about her on a regular basis. In fact, giving her tons of gifts and helping her with all of her problems may not be the best way to show your love. Many women dont view gifts as a sign of love, but rather a sign of knowing what she wants, or even sometimes trying to buy her off.

If you want to show her that you love her then tell her that you love her, look at her like you love, and treat her like you love her. Show her respect and compassion, listen to her when she wants to share something with you, and spend quality time with her which will make her feel as though your relationship is committed and in tact.

Hear Her!

I cant say this enough to you! You have to listen to her, and by that I mean actually hearing the words that are coming out of her mouth and acknowledging them as well as her feelings behind them. Its not as complicated as it may seem and it takes very little effort when you actually want to hear what she is saying.

Picture this: You start talking to your girlfriend and she slowly nods off into her own head. A blank stare and a nod of the head are all you ever get from her. Thats what many women feel about their boyfriends, and this bad listening is the reason many women break up with their boyfriends! A woman needs to be heard.

Dont Be Super Honest!

Honesty is always the best way to go, unless you are going to offend her or make her feel horribly bad! In that case its better just to say nothing at all or tell her something that wont offend her or make her feel bad.

A common example of this is “Do I look fat?” Dont ever answer yes as that is not the answer she is looking for. She wants to hear that you love her body and appreciate it, not that you think its fat, and THAT’S exactly how you should respond. Tell her how beautiful she is to you and how great she looks every single day.

If you hurt a womans feelings too often shes going to start to associate you with her low self-esteem. You are bringing her down and making her bad after all, so you will eventually get dumped by displaying this type of behaviour. Instead make her feel good and uplift her self-confidence.

You may not even be thinking of ending a relationship but we are always sometimes face with the difficult challenges of having to end a relationship after the relationship have gone sour .A break up may happens in a relationship as fast as the relationship was started in the first place.

Then the question then arises how can one end a relationship without both parties getting deeply hurt. You can even end a relationship with someone and still be a casual friend with the person , it all depends on how to handle it or open about it.

The first step towards ending a relationship successfully is to be honest with yourself about the real reasons why you want to end the relationship. You also need to ask yourself whether it is worth it ending the relationship base on your reasons. Is the relationship getting so sour that the two of you do not want to even see yourself again or both of you are having cheating or bad character, incompatibility, tolerance, communication, lack of sacrifice for one another challenges. What ever is the reason why you want to end the relationship should guide you well on your decision to ending the relationship.

The next step will be how you intend to end the relationship. The following steps serve as a guide to help you to end a relationship well without serious hurt to both parties.

In ending a relationship, you have to take out a convenient time to talk it out or discus with your partner why you think the two of you should give yourselves a break and giving the person your real reason. Do that in a convenient place and time as this is very important and not over the phone or sending your friend or someone else to deliver a message for you. It is just best to handle it yourself and try as much as possible to control your emotions and your temperament doing this discussion with your partner in order not to increase level of hurt over the impending break up or ending the relationship.

If you want to remain casual friend even after the break up , you will still need to get your partner to know about that. You can also thank your partner of the great time and memories that you people have spent together during the period of the relationship and let your partner know that you will always be grateful about that.

Also you do not need to take anything personal doing your discussion with your partner about your impending break up , try to be neutral and do not totally blame your partner for the reasons for the break up or your self. This may really affect the emotional needs of your partner at this moment ,so try and calm with faults that is causing you to decide on the break up.

You may also need to meet your partner and discus about ending your relationship and not just once, so that both of you could still be friends and pals and gradual ling you will be ending a relationship without any serious hurts to both parties.