Month: December 2018

The Three Stages Of Relationships

Stage 1: The Dependent Relationship
Woman were dependent on men. Men were not supposed to express their emotions and were confined to the role of “breadwinner”. Woman were confined to the role of housewife, with little political or economic power and few opportunities to move beyond their household lives. We needed each other in order to feel whole and complete. The first stage partner says I need a partner to complete me. Both partners come from feeling incomplete.

Stage 2: The 50/50 relationship
Two independent people, whole unto themselves, coming together as equals and evenly splitting the responsibilities of the household finances and childrearing. Even though this was a great step from dependency most woman were finding out they had to cover or hide their unique and natural expression of “Feminine radiance in order to succeed in todays more Masculine oriented economy. This model was very beneficial for many years and now seems to be shifting due to the side effects of men and woman becoming more sexually neutralized, unable to give each other what they really want in intimacy. When we focus on dividing the pie equally, our intimate embrace often becomes more like a business handshake or a business deal than a delicious swoon that dissolves two lovers into a single heart of desire. Ultimately what we have accomplished is protecting our hearts from each other. The second stage partner says I don’t need a partner and if I let one in it will be 50/50 with everything.

Stage 3: Intimate Communion.
There is a deep surrender and commitment to love, not necessarily to each other. The priority is to love. The thirds stage occurs when two people come together from wholeness and with two trustworthy individuals. The surrender of self into love is the basis for Intimate Communion. In our culture to surrender into love is considered an act of weakness by many. For the third stage partner this deep surrender is a sign of strength and commitment to love deeply. It is an ongoing practice of sexual union, emotional openness and spiritual trust. It is a practice of love and surrendering the fearful boundaries that guard your heart. To practice opening your heart in every moment, including when you feel hurt. Rather than turn away or close down, you practice loving. Its not about striking back, closing down, or becoming distant. The third stage partner says Because of the all the love I have . . . I need a partner to open my heart and deliver us to God. The questions to ask . . . does being in this relationship open me to love? Am I and the world being served more by being in or out of this relationship? The third stage partner says “I need a partner to take me to surrender me to love as I am unable to do this alone.” Is this relationships opening me to love?

First level – Feels like prison.

Second level – Feels like a 50/50 game.

Third level – The experience of true freedom

This is how it is possible to remain authentic and commit to a relationship fully. It is a daily commitment to love not a life time to a person. It is a commitment to love and only love. I dont have to give up me to be loved by you! This place of true freedom is completely free falling. Free falling into the depths of unknown and uncharted places. Its very vulnerable, scary and very exciting. You have virtually no references for this place and yet deep in your heart you have longed for the deep union for a lifetime. You hope that somehow your relationship would evolve into this instead of eroding it. The erosion began when we enforced boundaries, rules and isolated with huge walls around our hearts leaving us to feel a deep emptiness within. The emptiness we feel is about the loss of love we are not experiencing as men and women.

The emptiness is due to our getting off track of what is most important.

The most important work a man does is to discover and live his purpose. Until he knows his purpose a man cannot ever commit to a woman , be happy in his work or with himself. He will continually feel a deep emptiness inside. His constant fear is that he will die with his music left in his heart. He will look to fill this hole with a lot of busyness, pushing toward career goals, women, sex, alcohol, drugs, anything to avoid feeling that deep void. When a man is on purpose . . . he is extremely attractive to other women and men. It is not a mans purpose to commit to a woman or a relationship. That may be how he demonstrates his purpose, but it is not a mans purpose. A woman truly respects a man who stays on his purpose. A women will test her man to get him off purpose. If she succeeds in taking her man off purpose she loses respect and searches to replace him. If a man stays on purpose during a woman testing him, she acknowledges that he trustworthy and will open deeply to this man.

A woman’s greatest power is her ability to radiate her feminine essence. What does showing up like a genuine radiating women look like in the world? Surrendering to life and receiving. To nurture from a receiving place versus a giving place. The key is, to be willing to go deeply into everything. Not staying on the surface. The surface is masculine . . .the get it done energy. The feminine is deeply immersed in the feelings and wants to take her time and enjoy each precious moment.

Who are models of radiating feminine essence in our culture? You can see it in their eyes. You can see joy emanating and it looks like they just ended a wild dance with the divine.

Questions
1. What does the new genuine man and woman look like?
2. Who are the roles models in our society that emulate this,

The Genuine Woman
Her deep commitment to love is her beauty.
Willing to go deeply on a moment notice.
Is spontaneous and present to the moment.
Does not need to plan because she trusts the divine plan to unfold perfectly.
Sees the oneness in everyone eyes and in everything around her.
Surrounds her life with beauty and finds the beauty in all things around her.
Is vulnerable and open.
Naturally radiates love in her eyes and movement.
Listens really well.
Takes extraordinary care of herself because she knows how much it matters .
Says no easily without harshness.
Trusts her inner voice.
Practices her relationships with the divine on a moment by moment basis.
Longs to be opened more deeply by every experience in her life.
Is fearless without distraction.
Trusts her inner voice.

Women who radiate feminine essence
Jackie Onasis, Catherine Zeta Jones, Maya Angelou, Melanie Griffith, Natalie Wood, Princess Diana, Audrey Hepburn, Liz Taylor, Annette Benning, Gwyneth Paltrow, Jessica Lange, Grace Kelly, Meryl Streep, Kim Basinger, Juliette Binoche, Sade, Norah Jones, Cher, Celine Dion, Dianne Carrol, Nicole Kidman , Goldie Hawn Who would you add to this list?

The Genuine Man
He does not confuse wealth and material possession with the quality of himself.
Knows his purpose and is living it in a giving non-egoistic manner
Has a very strong presence without any need for domination
Is inspired by and embraces a woman’s radiance
Can go deep
Does not allow a relationship with woman or business/society to take him off purpose
Goes deep comes out fearlessly and shares lovingly and honestly
The 3rd stage man says, ‘If I’m going to be with her, I’m going all the way with her.’ That doesn’t necessarily mean sexually, it means all the way to God.
So strongly balanced in his emotional nature that clarity and comfort to express needs is easily & readily available
He does not confuse wealth and material possession with the quality of himself.
Enjoys expressing his feelings
Shows up with integrity and does what he says he will do
Protects his woman
Is loyal and trustworthy
Is whole and complete unto himself
Is responsive
Is awake and aware
Is secure with himself
Is energized by intimacy

Men who live on purpose and have great masculine presence:
Robert Redford, Gene Hackman, Antonio Bandereas, Sean Connery, New Warren Beatty Colin Powell, Martin Luther King, Humphrey Bogart, Denzel Washington, Paul Newman Yul Brynner, Clark Gable, John Travolta, Tom Cruise, Tom Hanks, Ron Howard, Seal, Sidney Poitier, Samuel Jackson
vWho would you add to this list?

Introduction

A Company that owns more than 50% of the stock is said to be the parent company of the Subsidiary. A subsidiary may be wholly or partially owned by the parent company. The Parent company incorporates the subsidiary, names its board of directors and officers, and adopts bylaw provisions preserving the parent’s control on its subsidiary. The subsidiary must be established and recognized by the parent, as well as third parties, as an independent corporation managed by a board of directors.

It is important that the subsidiary is recognized as an independent corporation managed by the board of directors even though it was incorporated by the parent company. This does not mean that the subsidiary is uncontrolled. The parent company has the legal authority to hold the subsidiary accountable to meet the financial objectives.

For the Parent company to control the independent subsidiary it should be
The sole shareholder
Include voting control provisions in subsidiary article
Prepare bylaws defining the authority of the officers, their term in the office and removal
Prohibit bylaws amendment without shareholders approval

Managing Parent-Subsidiary Relationship

As long as the parent company holds its subsidiary accountable for the expectations of its board of directors there is little risk for the parent for the wrong doings of the subsidiary. If the parent company exercises excessive control over the subsidiary, i.e., having the same board of directors, using a common letterhead, sharing office facilities, then the distinction between the parent and the subsidiary will be at risk. A subsidiary can be held accountable for its performance by the parent company by its voting control. It also has the authority to select the board of directors. This board manages the affairs of the subsidiary, makes policy, selects its officers and functions as a governing body. Most critical is the decision taken by the parent company in selecting the board of directors.

When we are in love, we feel the need to be together with our loved one, all the time. We call or send small text messages very often, we cant wait to meet he or she for dinner, we feel like theres no one else in the world as important. Thats how being in love looks like. All beginnings are very intense and passionate. This strong feeling, the desire to be together always, may or may not last. You want to know if you are in a relationship that will evolve and move forward, or this is just a crush that will gradually cool off? That a look at these signs that indicate your present relationship can turn into a long term relationship.

All memories are precious. Does he or she tell you things like: Remember when we first met? Do they remember how you like your coffee and what you were wearing the first time you met? This is a sure sign that they really care about you and that you are important to them. Someone who cant remember the first movie you went to probably doesnt care enough. People tend to remember even the smallest details of a happy experience. And no, this is not something that only women do, men will remember small things that made them happy.

Nothing is more important than being with you. If they drop everything to be with you, they are in it for the long run. You know you are important to them if they consider whatever you need at that moment, more important that whatever they were doing. If they prefer to go out with friends while you are at home with the flue, they might not be around for a long time.

They are always on your side. That is a very important aspect in a long term relationship. Being in a strong, serious relationship is like a partnership. You should be on the same team, all the time, even when you are wrong. Someone who wants to build a long term relationship with you, will never disagree with you in public, or make you feel dumb.

Let me entertain you! Not everybodys a comedian, but when someone is in love with you, they try to make you laugh, no matter how silly they look. If you are upset or sad, and they start to make funny faces and turn into your own personal clown, they really care. No one wants to look stupid in front of someone they dont plan on seeing for a long time.

Making plans.Together. You will know for sure that this will be a long term relationship if your partner includes you in his or hers future plans. If they tell about the house they want to buy, the number of children they plan to have, or even their all time fantasy travel destination, they want you in their life for a long time.
You are the most beautiful person in the world. When we fall in love, we always think that the person we date is incredibly attractive. Its chemistry, its the new and exciting person you just start to know. Sometimes is happens that after we really get to know someone, they suddenly dont seam so hot anymore. If they still tell you that you are the most beautiful person in the world after they got to know you inside too, then they love you completely.

These are only some of the signs you should watch out for if you want to know what the future of your relationship will be. These are not strict rules; some might not apply to your relationship. The bottom line is that if you are on your way to a long and happy relationship, you should feel loved, desired, respected, protected and needed. The rest is for your work out.

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Any relationship has its ups and downs , but what makes your work. A lasting relationship does not always signal a happy marriage. Plenty of miserable couples have stayed together for children, religion or other practical reasons. But for many couples, it’s just not enough to stay together.

They want a relationship that is meaningful and satisfying. In short, they want a sustainable marriage. The things that make a marriage last have more to do with communication skills,social support, stress – those are the things that allow it to last or not.

The notion that the best marriages are those that bring satisfaction to the individual may seem counter intuitive. After all, isn’t marriage supposed to be about putting the relationship first?

Not anymore. For centuries, marriage was viewed as an economic and social institution, and the emotional and intellectual needs of the spouses were secondary to the survival of the marriage itself. But in modern relationships, people are looking for a partnership, and they want partners who make their lives more interesting.

Caryl Rusbult, a researcher at Vrije University in Amsterdam who died last January, called it the -Michelangelo effect,- referring to the manner in which close partners -sculpt- each other in ways that help each of them attain valued goals.

Studied of how individuals use a relationship to accumulate knowledge and experiences, a process called -self-expansion.- Research shows that the more self-expansion people experience from their partner, the more committed and satisfied they are in the relationship.

Over time, the personal gains from lasting relationships are often subtle. Having a partner who is funny or creative adds something new to someone who isn’t. A partner who is an active community volunteer creates new social opportunities for a spouse who spends long hours at work.

Nothing is as hard as trying to cope up with a relationship when it is over. What started as two hearts coming together into a wonderful relationship suddenly encounters bad time and breaks up causing a lot of pain. Usually the break up is connected to the heart as it all started there. So the pain is an invisible pain effecting the emotions and disturbing the mind. So where do you go looking for a solution to this most subtle and emotionally killing problem?

So what are the things people generally do after their relationship is over? Depression, frustration and anger are common to all people suffering a break up. These emotions lead to binge eating, addictions to drugs and alcohol, self destruction, lowered self esteem and confidence etc. the feeling of being rejected is so high that it affects the productivity and daily routine. A sense of unworthiness and loneliness is so great that people either shut themselves inside the home or try to stay away by roaming around aimlessly. Whatever the emotion or the actions following them one should always remember that what is done cannot be undone.

Stop All Contacts

After seeing above the kind of reactions people follow when a relationship ended now its time to see what to avoid. Some keep sending messages and missed calls just to show how much the miss their partner. They don’t realize that this action is just going to worsen their relationship. Moreover it is a sign of weakness and helplessness on your part. It shows how much you were dependant mentally and emotionally on the person who just broke off to have a better life or for a better partner. Remember that once broken it can never be patched up and even if it comes together again the scares are always there.

Stop Going Out of The Way

When a relationship is over people suddenly started eating, drinking or dating too much then be sure you want to take a toll on your own emotions by doing these things. Accept things and start a new much mature and independent life devoid of any emotional bondage or held up. Taste the new fresh freedom from being single again and try to make the best use of it by enjoying your life. Go for a complete make over and when you look better you will feel much better. So when you feel better your self esteem and confidence levels increase and this creates a new aura around you which will attract other people’s attention including your ex’s.

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